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10  (Spiritual) Fundamentals of all truly Harmonious and Flourishing Relationships

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The main essential purpose of any relationship is to reflect to all the others in the relationship what they need to learn, understand and grow in order to become more of themselves, more of their True/Core Natural Authentic Selves*!

* – [which is most probably somewhere along the lines of: Unconditionally: Loving, Supportive, Allowing, Happy, Relaxed, Forgiving, Humble, Expansive, Passionate, Enthusiastic, Child-like-Playful, Spontaneous, Imaginative, Creative, Determined, Compassionate, Empathic, Integral, No fixed expectations or attachments..]

 

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Harmonious RelationShips are the result of Inner Alignment*, Love and deep Respect for Ourselves and Others.

The sustained focus and determination towards one’s own personal evolution, growth and the becoming of more of your true natural self (by having high clarity and awareness about your own psyche, as the (conscious or unconscious) Beliefs and Definitions), thus perpetually learning, expanding, becoming the more of your True Natural Self, is an intrinsic aspect of any harmonious and constructive relationship!

The more ‘Self-Complete’, and more of your Natural Authentic Self You are, the more likely to attract similar Individuals as mirroring reflections, which is obviously a wonderful reflection and experience to have.

* – [Inner Alignment (as the first ideal fundamental step towards any harmonious relationship) = discovering, clarifying and knowing who You really are, and how you Define and Create yourself to Be (your unique Individuality, Personality/Psyche (as your: conscious and subconscious: Beliefs, Definitions (resulting in: Fears, Boundaries, Preferences, Wishes, Dreams, Spiritual / Creative / Artistic / Expressive talents, etc.), unique inclinations and the chosen themes of exploration in life)]

 

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Total Honesty and Openness – Being fully honest and open, allows the Other(s) in the relationship to know who You truly are (in that moment);

Not withholding any comment or information in order to avoid hurting the Other(s) – because You cannot always know or predict what can hurt the Others, or how They will react to your honesty, therefore, is best to stop assuming responsibility for the Other’s own life and evolutionary path (as: their own perceptions, emotions, reactions) reflected towards your honest and non-manipulative communications. Open the entire article/material →

Responsibility = ResponseAbility = the Ability to Respond, to make a Choice

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“When You take responsibility You are at choice, You are self-empowered… You know You have the ability to choose, You are free to choose… that’s freedom… that’s self empowerment, that is also effortless alignment with the unconditional Love of the Infinite, and by being yourself that way, … .. is how You perform the best service to everyone else, because by being yourself, You then can share the gifts You have, spontaneously… creatively, and thus everyone benefits by You just being You.” – Bashar


‘response’ (seen from a (Meta)Physical perspective) is the willingness to believe that everything that happens in your life happens for a reason and to approach it that way and to give it that meaning, whether You may intellectually understand how that could be so or not, and to trust that it is so, and thus to act as it is so – and when You act as if it is so, You will get the reality that shows You it is so.

 

Also, it is certainly not about the ‘taking of any ‘blame’ (and judging yourself (or others)) for any “mistakes” in the past – but about assuming responsibility about the clarity over your own Beliefs and Definitions and Vibrational State in the Present Moment – because really, the Present Moment is the only one who can influence your Present Moment, which the past can not.

Also, potentially Useful to Realize that You are not at all Responsible for the Other, but You are Responsible towards the Other, in front of the Other, to Be the More that You can Be (and Become)!

Otherwise put:

“You are responsible to Them, but You are not responsible for them. And what They are choosing to be is their choice. The way You actually can assist Them best is by fully being the person You wish to be, regardless of what You see externally. ” – Bashar

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